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Help Wanted: Individuals Living Out Authentic Faith Needed
18 June 2008 by Brian.
It’s late, so here’s a couple of quick thoughts. I was recently challenged by a former church-goer as to the behavior of the vocal “Christians” and how even their fellow believers fear to do business with them because they are so untrustworthy and can actually be expected to operate in direct opposition to their stated beliefs. I couldn’t argue…it certainly happens…often. Is it in keeping with the person of Christ? Absolutely not. Is the validity of faith in him and a transforming relationship with him called into question? Absolutely. This is a tragedy in the church and one which, as believers, we should be challenging. I pray for more churches that will call people to lives worthy of the high calling we’ve received in Jesus Christ.
Another sad application of the same issue can be seen in our failure to answer this dangerous school in Virginia. Islamic students are being taught that it’s acceptable to kill ‘infidels’, yet the American church is so impotent that most Muslims in this land see nothing to attract them to Jesus and the God of the Bible.
If we fail to repent and remedy the current situation, then whether our downfall is ultimately brought about by secular humanism or Islam, the answer for our ineffectiveness in reaching our neighbor will be found in the same place: the mirror.
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I Don’t Believe We’re Put Here To Be Comfortable
9 June 2008 by Brian.
Richard Dawkins wrote a book entitled, “The God Delusion” in which he attacks belief in God as unscientific and false. This video is an interesting interview with him, during which he attempts to defend his position (which he does rather poorly).
Follow this link for the interview.
Alistair McGrath, by the way, wrote an answer entitled, “The Dawkins Delusion” which I’d recommend to anyone who gets confused by Dawkins’ materialistic dogma.
Dawkins and I share one thing in common. Both of us desire to live our lives in conformity with the truth, no matter the consequences. If he’s sincere in that claim, then I pray that God would break through the intellectual pride and materialist presuppositions and reveal himself to Dawkins (and those like him) in unmistakable ways. It’s interesting to note the final statement in the video, “I don’t believe we’re put here to be comfortable.” As determined as Dawkins is to operate as if there were no ultimate purpose in life (without a Creator, there can be none), he unwittingly lapses back into language that conveys that we have been “put” here (notice the passive voice). Dr. Dawkins should ask himself why, if there is no moral basis to the universe and there is no Creator (or Intelligent Designer), it should matter in the least whether a society lived according to truth or a lie…the universe is certainly impervious to the beliefs of humans? Or why it matters what “purpose” the collection of matter presently known as Richard Dawkins has “decided” it has? After all, if Dawkins is correct, his own thoughts are the predetermined product of chemical interactions in his brain which give the illusion of conscious choice, but have no ultimate purpose or meaning, nor could he have chosen otherwise.
Dr. Dawkins, please remind us why you wrote your book?
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The Purposeless Driven Life
4 June 2008 by Brian.
Rick Warren wrote what has become a well-known “Christian Living” book entitled, “The Purpose Driven Life”. I must admit that I haven’t read it, but I am well aware of the need to live for something and to orient our lives around that purpose. When this purpose drives all of our attitudes, energy, and actions, we fulfill our purposes and enjoy the satisfaction of living a life that has an impact on the world.
I’ve recently been considering the “driven-ness” of the purposeless life and considering the pain brought by a lack of fulfillment. The purposeless life can be just as driven as any other, but the effort expended is simply dissipated, returning nothing but a shallow, short-term benefit, followed by the quick return of the hunger for fulfillment and the drive to satisfy that appetite. Some return to the same well over and over, thinking the next attempt will prove more satisfying than the last…driven to addiction. Others are smarter than that, so, for instance, having tried illicit sex, they might move on to alcohol, or drugs, or gambling, or…you get the picture. Fundamentally, they believe that there has to be SOMETHING that will satisfy and they continue their desperate search to find it…driven to distraction. Still others face the reality in front of them and, having lost hope, they dread another 60 to 100 years on this Earth through which they will “live”…driven to despair. As Dylan sang, “You gotta serve somebody. It might be the Devil and it might be the Lord, but you gotta serve somebody.”
The fact is that there is no such thing as a purposeless life, but there are plenty of lives who have not discovered their purpose and there are plenty more who have, but they’re running from it! Like it or not, we were all created to glorify God as we experience relationship with Him, through Jesus. And it is only in giving ourselves to that relationship, that we discover who we were truly meant to be and can fulfill the specific purpose for which we were created. Only God is big enough to capture our imaginations, to hold our wonder, and to meet every need in our lives.
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Politically Correct = Waste of Tax Dollars
30 April 2008 by Brian.
This is too funny…at least now Sweden won’t have to deal with all those women on street corners, afraid to cross the street because the sign only instructs the men on how to do so.
When being “politically correct” replaces the obligation to be moral, all kinds of nonsense emerge. This is just one example.
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How’s THIS for a Contrast? (Warning: Explicit)
24 April 2008 by Brian.
I get the iTunes free Single of the Week each week, which happens to be a great value (most weeks, anyway). Occasionally, I don’t get the chance to listen to the song until it pops up randomly on my iPod and I realize I’m hearing it for the first time. Sugarcult’s, “Los Angeles” was one such song. I’ll warn you before you proceed, that the lyrics are harsh, but I’m posting them because they represent the stark reality of life as the center of one’s own universe. For contrast, I offer the 8th century hymn, “Be Thou My Vision” which hints at the enduring joy of a life of worshipping God through Christ.
Do you want to live a life of enduring hunger, never satisfied, simply consuming everything and everyone around you in your search for satisfaction? Or is a life of purpose, satisfaction, and joy which transcends circumstance a more reasonable goal? Read the lyrics and think about it…
I want a girl, girl that won’t talk back
And a job, job that gives me slack
And a car, car that won’t break down
In the heat of Los Angeles
Want to go, go without a map
Far away, away, I won’t get trapped
By the sound, a town, the sun beats down
In the heat of Los AngelesOne more holiday
I will not celebrate
I’m almost desperate
Cause I’m down, I’m down, I’m so beat downThis city’s killing me
I want, I want, I want everything
This city’s killing me
In the heat of Los AngelesI want a love, love that won’t hit back
Want sex, sex without a catch
Want a face, to trust, to feel, to lust
In the heat of Los Angeles
Want to FUCK, FUCK, FUCK this up
Gonna feel, feel, feel you up
Had enough, enough, enough’s enough
In the heat of Los AngelesThis city’s killing me
I want, I want, I want everything
This city’s killing me
In the heat of Los Angeles
What has become of me?
I want, I want, I want everything
This city’s killing me
(I want everything)Come on, come on
It’s alive and breathing
Come on, come on
Come alive today
Come on, come on
It’s a heartless beating
The sun is burning down Los Angeles
Los Angeles
Los AngelesI want a girl, girl that won’t talk back
And a job, job that gives me slack
And a car, car that won’t break down
In the heat of Los AngelesCome on, come on
It’s alive and breathing
Come on, come on
Come alive today
Come on, come on
It’s a heartless beating
The sun is burning down(This city’s killing me)
Come on, come on
It’s alive and breathing
Come on, come on
Come alive today
(This city’s killing me)
Come on, come on
It’s a heartless beating
The sun is burning down Los Angeles (one more holiday)
The sun is burning down Los Angeles (I will not celebrate)
The sun is burning down Los Angeles (one more holiday)
The sun is burning down Los Angeles (I will not celebrate)
Be Thou my Vision, O Lord of my heart;_
Naught be all else to me, save that Thou art_
Thou my best Thought, by day or by night,_
Waking or sleeping, Thy presence my light.Be Thou my Wisdom, and Thou my true Word;_
I ever with Thee and Thou with me, Lord;_
Thou my great Father, I Thy true son;_
Thou in me dwelling, and I with Thee one.Be Thou my battle Shield, Sword for the fight;_
Be Thou my Dignity, Thou my Delight;_
Thou my soul’s Shelter, Thou my high Tower:_
Raise Thou me heavenward, O Power of my power.Riches I heed not, nor man’s empty praise,_
Thou mine Inheritance, now and always:_
Thou and Thou only, first in my heart,_
High King of heaven, my Treasure Thou art.High King of heaven, my victory won,_
May I reach heaven’s joys, O bright heaven’s Sun!_
Heart of my own heart, whatever befall,_
Still be my Vision, O Ruler of all.
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Not Worth A Penny
22 April 2008 by Brian.
George Bernard Shaw is widely considered a brilliant author, but if someone had offered him a penny for this thought, they would’ve overpaid.
“Lack of money is the root of all evil.”
Are we to believe that evil does not lurk within the hearts of the rich? Why, then, do we find greed and corruption at all economic levels? Perhaps poverty is not the cause of evil, but only one more symptom of man’s fallen condition.
Thoughts?
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I Feel Like I Should Think More
9 April 2008 by Brian.
It drives me nuts when I hear people use emotional terms when describing their thoughts about an objective, fact-based issue:
Question: “What do you think should be done in order to prevent Social Security from going bankrupt?” Answer: “I feel like privatization is the best option.”
What?!? Nobody asked which flavor of ice cream you prefer today or your emotional reaction in the face of such a daunting challenge. The question is one that needs rational analysis of a variety of facts and the consequences of the various potential solutions to the problem, producing a well thought-out decision. Now, the decision could be wrong…nobody expects that the respondent will provide THE definitive, correct answer. However, the question is one which requires and intellectual response, not an emotional one.
Jesus said, “Out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks.” Our language betrays the fact that our generation has lost faith in objectivity, rationality, fact, and truth. People rarely “think” or “believe” anything about anything anymore. Now, they “feel like” everything from the sum of 2 plus 2 to their favorite flavor of ice cream to the results of their monthly budget or the existence or non-existence of God.
As believers, we should be aware that a rational, objective approach is insufficient for 100% of life, but this approach is foundational to reality because a Constant exists in the universe and He is the source of reality, the moral law-giver. We should never be so arrogant as to believe that we perfectly understand everything and that we cannot be wrong about an issue. However, we shouldn’t back away (nor slip into our culture’s habit) of speaking as if everything were up to personal choice. This, I believe.
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So THAT’S the Secret!
24 March 2008 by Brian.
All along, I thought it was our common commitment to Christ that’s held our marriage together for the past 13 1/2 years, but it turns out it’s simply due to the fact that my wife is better looking than I am! If you doubt it, just check out FoxNews’ article on the joys of marriage between ugly men and beautiful women. (Somewhere, there are groups of unattractive guys celebrating the results of this study…in fact, I’d like to see photos of the psychologists who conducted the study!)
This story is completely absurd for a multitude of reasons. Here’s a few, just to get you thinking:
1. The study determined whose marriages were healthy by studying couples who had been married for SIX MONTHS?!? Anyone who thinks that a marriage can be definitively labeled “healthy” or not after such a short period of time, clearly doesn’t understand marriage.
2. The study assumes that physical attractiveness is the primary factor (or at least a vital factor) in producing a “healthy marriage”. There is no mention of emotional or spiritual compatibility, quality of character, or any other immaterial attribute.
3. Of course, the study presupposes a materialistic world view. They presume that humanity is enslaved to chemical reactions and evolutionary pressures, rather than free moral agents with souls, having the ability to transcend their biology by using the mind that God has given them and by interacting with spiritual realities.
Maybe it helps that my wife is better looking than I (I certainly don’t have any complaints), but neither one of us is going to be looking too hot 20, 30, or 40 years from now. I’m grateful that there’s more to life than physical beauty and that I’m married to a woman who possesses qualities that will endure.
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Nitty Gritty Spirituality
17 March 2008 by Brian.
What comes to mind when you think of the term, “spiritual”? Angels? God? Heaven? Demons? Prayer? What about evangelism? These are all good answers, but what about digging ditches, mowing the yard, or even heartbreak? Too often, we forget that God is interested in our reliance on Him in ALL of life’s experiences. He created us and He knows our strengths, weaknesses, and struggles. We can bring any of our experiences to Him, the highs and lows included.
Check out the lyrics, to Larry Norman’s, “I’ve Got to Learn to Live Without You“. If the lyrics don’t seem “spiritual”, maybe you need to reconsider how you relate to God.
You came into my life, you took me off the shelf
You told my name to me and taught me what to do.
But then you went away and left me by myself,
I feel completely lost and lonely without you.Why’d you go, baby? I guess you know,
I’ve got to learn to live without you.
I’ve got to learn to live without you.
I’ve got to learn to live without you, without you.Today I thought I saw you walking down the street
With someone else, I turned my head and faced the wall.
I started crying and my heart fell to my feet
But when I looked again it wasn’t you at all.Why’d you go, baby? I guess you know,
I’ve got to learn to live without you.
I’ve got to learn to live without you.
I’ve got to learn to live without you, without you.
It’s just no good without you, without you.
It’s just no good without you, without you.
It’s just no good without you.I’ve got to learn to live without you.
I’ve got to learn to live without you.
I’ve got to learn to live without you.
Not hopeful or uplifting enough? Sometimes life isn’t. We need to be willing to face that fact and remember that God is present in all aspects of our life. His grace is available for the abandoned spouse as well as for the joyful Sunday morning worshiper. We should never run from an honest relationship with God in the interests of appearing “more spiritual”. If you’ve got a friend facing hard times, lift them up in prayer, but be willing to walk through the low times without condemning them for their lack of “victory” as they face the trials.
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Churches Filled With Hypocrites
11 March 2008 by Brian.
Hypocrites in church, you say? Next thing you know, they’ll be trying to tell us that the forest is full of trees or that the ocean is teeming with fish.
Actually, my experience is that churches are filled with people and…guess what?…people tend to be hypocritical! Heck, we tend to try to fool ourselves into thinking that we’re better than we are. It only follows that we’d be attempting to perpetrate the same illusion on everyone around us.
I posted the other day and was rewarded with a rather angry-sounding diatribe against Christianity. As a Christian, aware of my own hypocritical leanings, I always try to learn from my critics. We shouldn’t let critics define us, but we should never add self-righteousness and/or pride to our hypocrisy, and fail to see our own shortcomings. One accusation in particular should give us pause. The comment stated, “Love thy neighbor, sure, unless they need help that would inconvenience you in any way then they can just fall by the wayside. i cant wait till the post Christian era comes, because only then will we be able to look back in clarity at the centuries of brainwashing and realize the true extent of the hypocrisies you represent.” It’s easy to respond that believers love others all the time, which is true. However, do we reach beyond the boundaries of those who are easy to love? Do we care for the poor, the homeless, the disenfranchised? Do we give sacrificially and show the love of Christ to those who don’t look, smell, or think like we do? These are tough questions for believers in a country where we’re so busy that “loving” our brothers and sisters in Christ can often be limited to a smile and a handshake during a 60 second window in the church service each week. We shouldn’t look away from this issue, but rather look to Christ’s example. He picked up a cross and showed love to the human race, who in no way deserved his great sacrifice of love. The Church is called to follow THAT example, aren’t we?
I spend plenty of time on this blog discussing the hypocrisy of secular humanists, the hypocrisies inherent in the sexual revolution, etc., so I’m going to avoid any of that tonight. What is YOUR part in expressing sacrificial love to a lost world?
We should never wink at hypocrisy, but if it’s there, let’s own it, repent, and trust the Holy Spirit to continually work on us, to convict us of sin (both of commission and of omission), and allow Christ to live His life through us in ever increasing measure. Let’s never give the impression to the world around us that we’ve got everything so together that can’t learn and grow, nor should we “play church” and then go live our lives self-centeredly disgracing the name of our Lord. Let’s get real: with God, with ourselves, and with each other. Perhaps more authenticity and humility would make the church more welcoming to those who currently see nothing attractive about us.
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